The Perfect Couple
Let’s not jump to conclusions relationship the two of you will not be lasting. According to John Gray, Ph.D., author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, the perfect mate is not only measured by romantic activities undertaken. The key, if you can understand each other’s needs and expectations of each, you both can be called the perfect couple. Want to know what type you both?
1. The Team – integral type
Type this pair have the same hobbies and interests. Either that, they have personality introvert, and extrovert. As such, both the home. Hobby you both read and watch DVDs at home. Or just you and the lover are very fond of the same sport. As a result, the couple spent much time together. And, your friend is a friend as well.
Plus:
You both have very strong emotional closeness. Therefore, emotional and psychological needs are met. For you, ‘partner is a friend’. This relationship has great potential toward marriage. I was so inseparable, the couple relationship is very sticky like Romeo and Juliet.
Minus:
The problem is, this closeness sometimes more prone to ‘friction’, which could lead to conflict. Because everyone needs privacy. Occasionally, during a fight, you need someone else to help find solutions to problems.
For intimacy is established:
Although already considered the him as a best friend, you still need to have their own space. You need friends from different circles, although the vent just friends or friends gathering. You need to have me time, special time for yourself. This could be the fresh air for you. Give the freedom on the him to perform his own activities.
2. The Partner – type of cooperation
This type of partner has different interests, but can do activities in places adjacent. Your hobby caring for flowers in the garden, while she likes to tamper with the engine in the garage. Usually if married, the couple were in the habit for the task. For instance, you take care of affairs of the kitchen, while the partner in charge of taking care of the bills.
Uniquely, because of different interests, when a trip to the mall, you are both each other breakaway, heading for their respective purposes. That is, for not wasting time. Thus, mutual cooperation.
Plus:
This couple is a compact team. Although, do things differently, emotionally, you’re both pretty close, without damage to the private area of each.
Minus:
Unfortunately, because it was felt each other know what to do, this pair has a lack of communication. Sometimes, despite being alone, but you are both busy with self sediri. As a result, there is rarely another chat. Be careful. maybe, you are less familiar with the him inside and out.
In order for the closer:
Invite your partner discuss your favorite. Ask also his opinion about the problem you are facing. This method also make him feel needed. So do not forget, he occasionally takes considered to be in control.
3. The Opponent – Type opposite
Type this pair has a different personality 180 degrees. Such as, you like window shopping at the mall, while the lover is more like climbing a mountain. Or, your hobbies, aka clubbing club hopping, but the more she likes watching sports at home.
Plus:
Their emotional needs can be met, although not done together. Space that you both have also quite extensive. But, you both cover each other’s personality that are not owned. Thus, creating an intact relationship, mutual complement and complete each other. For example, your manager, he’s the winner. You are introverted, he’s an extrovert.
Minus:
To understand the needs of the couple is quite difficult. After all, who is expected to differ from each other. Usually, things like the him, is the thing you hate. Therefore, quite tenuous emotional closeness
For intimacy is established:
Now, to add romance, you should understand the needs and expectations. You must be sensitive to their needs. Do not hinder him when making his hobby. It is important also to recognize the environment lovers. That’s where the connection you both.
Conversely, for he knows your needs, should also notify your wishes to him. He was not a psychic, who can predict what you want. So, should you try to open each one another.
Posted: October 4th, 2010 under Relationship, Women Matter.
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